Rosaria Butterfield’s follow-up to The Secret Thoughts of an Unlikely Convert is excellent. The subtitle says it all: Further Thoughts of an Unlikely Convert on Sexual Identity and Union with Christ.
She gives her thoughts on some of the hottest issues in the world and the church today – same-sex marriage, homosexuality, sexual orientation, and gender identity. Her strong (and correct) contention is that one of the major lenses through which all of these issues should be viewed is that of identity – not the way we see ourselves, but the way God sees us. According to His Word – the Bible – we are either “in Christ” or “in Adam.” There are no other options available to us. All that we are, including, but not limited to, our sexuality is wrapped up in one of those two categories.
Butterfield calls conversion “the spark of a new identity.” A Christian’s new identity is based on our union with Christ – we being in Him and He in us. She says that sexual orientation (at least as the world understands it) is a false concept introduced by Sigmund Freud in the Nineteenth Century. Her chapter on repentance is one of the best I’ve ever read on the subject. A chapter called “Community” presents the virtue of hospitality as representing Christ to the world by giving us a look at what she, her husband, and children do regularly.
I highly recommend this book, but with one caveat: read The Secret Thoughts of an Unlikely Convert first. When you do, you’ll understand better her conversion to Christ and her growth in Him. Tolle lege!